As a sex worker, my first job was at a brothel. I’ve had zero business experience (without counting three Fake Call Girl Diary seasons) and climbed into the top-first. Over the following years, in india, I’ve worked at a handful of brothels, then dipped my toe into the private escorting world as a vip escort girl in katraj pune. My first escorting trip was not that successful (due to the lack of knowledge), so I eventually returned to brotheling because I enjoyed the simplicity so comfort.
I got sick of living in brothel, eventually. I can recall being in a quiet, long day shift in the girls’ room, where I made $0, and a battle between the two girls breaking out and saying ‘I have done this.’ I can recall a lot. I therefore bought a burner telephone and rented a hotel room, with the help of my partner and a few close friends, the very next day and the rest is history.
And I don’t feel prepared to think about this. I ‘ve never served for an escorting service. This is also important to remember that I have never served in an area where sexual conduct is illegal. I know that my experience working in legal brothels and as legal accompanying in india is based on my privilege. All right, I’m going to stop now ranting and get the headlines. How can the work in a brothel differ from the work as a private escort??
Convenience: Brothels is usually an environment that is walk-in. No other job is associated with escorting (i.e., drafting copies of ads, managing websites and social media, listening to enquiries, liaising with clients, reserving hotels and flights etc). You ‘re turning up, moving and going.
Setup costs: Often sex workers compete to set up separate escorts (e.g. photo shots, building websites, ads, new phone, call places, etc.) for something that is significant. There are no expenses to work in a brothel, because they pay the share of the wages charged for the brothel.
Set shifts: I’ve always been working in brothels for 8-hour shifts. You would make money on extreme changes that go from 12:00 to 8:00 a.m. My earnings ranged, because over the first few years I kept bad notes, but with one change I was able to earn about a few hundred dollars and then absolutely zero. In truth you can only work for one hour or two of that time, while an 8-hour shift on paper doesn’t sound too bad.
Rules: Just 8 girls per shift, prepare the bed after your booking, make sure you spray the bathroom down with blue water, just offer blowjobs with a condom, you can not charge for $50 for bonuses, blah blah blah. You know what I’ll think about if you’ve ever been to work on a brothel. And so little meaning behind them, too many made-up rules. It’s my body, so thank you I’m going to follow my own rules.
Freedom: Personal help is the reverse of an 8-hour move in the space with girls without the curtain. Private escorts offer you time and flexibility to live your lives if you are educated and skilful. You can earn a day in an hour, a week in a day, the worth of a month in a year. You should work, read, and make a cheeky reservation on the weekend to save money on your savings plan. During your life you can do private escort work and spend time doing other stuff.
Control: You will monitor your time , resources, costs, ads, image, and customers through your private escort.
Loneliness: I had been living alone the first time I tried private escorts. I’m an introvert, but I also have problems with the lack of interaction with others (other than customers). Currently that I stay with my family, it’s so much better for me because someone just needs to go home. However, you need to make a deliberate attempt to socialize and connectivize with other people while you are private escorts and single.
No Guidebook: There is no private escort guide – believe me, when I started I felt! No one knows what to do, what to plan, what to charge, how to interact with customers or how to tax your business. It’s a wild world that’s overwhelming and quick to get lost. I ‘m glad I began my sex work in brothels, so that before I left for private life I could find my feet.